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Volume 2, Issue #15

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Moving On
by Dawson Leery

Graduation. It once seemed like this elusive end of the line. A year that abstractly sat fixed at the top of my schedules and report cards. I never thought of it as a time that would actually come to pass. And yet, it's about to… so what next?

On the surface, it seems simple. By now most of us are cognizant of our college plans - the ambiguity is gone and the reality looms in the distance as the summer fast approaches. So the only thing left to do is pack my bags and board that plane to opposite coast. But somehow… If my recent experiences are any indication, it's bound to be a lot more complicated than any of us have anticipated.

For one thing, on paper USC seems not entirely dissimilar to my other top choice school, NYU. But the reality is starting to hit, as I prepare to buy a one-way plane ticket that my Boston bound friends won't even have to think about. And it slowly begins to sink in that it's not just an all-around dispersion. I'm the one who is leaving.

And I'm not really upset about that - just contemplative. Last summer I watched two of my friends leave me. This summer, like the summer before last, I'll be leaving them… but summer is a mere two or three month diversion from the reality that is everyday life. This departure is not for a diversion, to return to home base at the end of the great adventure. This is to become my everyday life.

I know this column is supposed to find its way into an "opinion" - some clearly defined statement expressing in succinct points my feelings on a particular topic of note. But the truth is, for the first time in my life, I'm not sure I have one. I'm elated to be going to Los Angeles to fulfill my childhood, lifelong ambitions, to explore the larger universe outside of the small microcosm thereof that Capeside provided. But on the proverbial other hand, after all these years of preparation I'm still not sure I'm ready to cross that threshold, to leave this comfortable haven that I've grown so accustomed to.

The only thing I'm sure of is that while I might forget a few lessons from history class… and I might never fully understand quadratics… but I know that the friends I've made will last a lifetime. Those friendships are rare. I hope all of us can say we've found someone at CHS that we're never going to let go of, no matter where life takes us. Goodbye, CHS!!

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Letters to the Editor

Do you have any idea what I'm talking about? Send your thoughts to editor@capeside.net.

Dear Editor,
OK,
Once again Pacey Witter has impressed me more than I ever thought he had the potential of doing. He hit the nail right on the head! Prom is just an excuse for people to get all dressed up and rub against each other, which in most cases I enjoy but it makes me mad that people think that they actually have to go to this thingy. I however do have a wonderful date for the prom and I am excited but if I had the choice of staying home with my best friend and going to the prom I would definitely just stay home. I'm looking forward to this dance because I (being a 7 year old girl once with Saved By The Bell on TV) have in a way dreamed about this night too. I just think from my date's viewpoint he's only going because I even said something about it! He's just that type of a guy! So Pacey I hope you had as much fun with Joey as I'm going to have with Alex! I want to hear about it in your next column! yours,
Erin

Dear Editor,
My first year of university has finally come to a close. Observing the students of Capeside end their high school years brings back how I was feeling a mere year ago. I believe that graduating high school is potentially the toughest moment of a young person's life up to that point. Miraculously the clan at the creek will surely end up staying together, but until then the uncertainties are unbearable. Will you ever see your closest friend again? How will long distance romances work? How can you possibly completely change your life and move on with nobody there as a security blanket? I'll admit that I frequently wish I was in high school again. The reality is that we keep aging and there's nothing that can stop that. I'm not about to say that college is an even more amazing and fun time than high school, because that hasn't been my experience. It's different. It can't be compared. Despite all my fears of losing my high school friends, we have remained close, although separated - a truthful oxymoron. New friends come and old friends remain. Think of college as gaining something new without losing anything old. Although the adjustment to college life is tremendous, you will survive. And if you're not going to college, the real world is waiting anxiously for you. Strive towards your dreams and never give up.

Good luck to the Capeside graduating class of 2001. To the friends, the couples, and the memories, I hope you all make it through the trials of the upcoming years.
Emily

P.S. To comment on Pacey's negative opinions about prom - in a way he's right. Prom is a big show, where cliques stand out more than they ever did when roaming the halls of the school. And at the same time, everyone comes together as a class to display their commonalities. It can be a fun and emotional time if you allow it to. Wish Joey luck with her address at graduation. I'm sure she'll be fabulous, and I envy her courage, strength, and determination.

Dear Editor,
I just want to say all of you out there who don't like Pacey's Rants, should really get a reality check. I mean come on you are being extremely hypocritical. You say he complains and whines, fine I get that, but isn't that what you're doing???????? You're complaining about his complaints, so next time you complain about his "ranting" sessions you should look in the mirror and see who's really complaining.
ADavid

Dear Editor,
After reading Jen Lindley's editorial I have come to the conclusion that the girl needs to lighten up! The Prom night is one night of the year you can relax and act like a pathetic dork - everyone else will be. It's a night when she can let herself go and actually (shock horror for Ms cool NY) be ENTHUSED about something. Just don't take it so seriously - your image isn't everything.
Kat

Dear Editor,
I agree with what Andie said, friends are one of your ultimate blessings and they are very hard to find. We are five in our click, and one of us is leaving. Call it corny, but it's very hard to say goodbye. We've been through a lot of tough times and also good times. I know you hear that from all people, but I think, we are five of a kind! We know each other so well, we finish each other's sentences, we correct each other's mistakes, we are almost a perfect circle. But I guess, when you think that happiness will never seem to end, it will. And the saddest part is, though you've been together for almost every day of your lives, you'll just realize in the end that there's so many things that you haven't done together yet---- there's so many words you haven't told each other yet. It's really devastating to know that you kinda wasted your life, ranting, feeling so discontented, sit around, voicing your dreams and doing nothing about it--- because that's what we did. The five of us got in a social predicament, it was a strong blow, hard core. And we just felt bad and started hating things on our way, and then one day, when we learned that everything was gonna end, we just felt so regretful. So all I want to say is, cherish the moments you are with your friends and make the most of every bad situations because your friends are one of the best things that happens in your life, and who knows? They might not be able to stay with you, even if they want to.
Teenagedirtbag315

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